Wrote on 30th..

It's an ususal rainy day in winter also on the 2nd last day of the year!As a kid and even now also this thing always keep me guessing why people go so gaga about a year coming to an end?As per the perfect mathemetical calculation a year which is marked by nothing but numerical value in the form of dates will any which way will come to an end we like it or not!So as some of us rightly say these all are nothing but marketing gimmick!Is our life getting
measured by "whats-in" the market?
or is it us what is making the market to make us in-turn to follow the market!!I am sure not an economist to confidently opine on it but then again we have freedom of speech..don't we??

Maslow's hierarchy of (my) need!! ;)

Sometimes the best place under the sun is my favourite saloon.It makes me feel it transports me to a newer me just like some magician in a magical world.Instead of magic wand you have scissors and combs!!damn them who says scissors just cuts and make you bleed!man it makes you sexy too ;) so here I am at Tranzient with my friend Payal for a cool makeover!more than me it's Payal I am worried as I made some publicity and brought her here!Sweet smell of word of mouth!!back to my MBA days' marketing class..wow!I feel my MBA knowledge have been more applicable to my personal life than professional life!May be that's what education is all about.I feel it teaches you more about how to deal with life rather than those Excel sheets on which you do a "zindegi barbad" act and get profusely paid!funny world isn't it?!Then it all boils down to how you would like to use it.I don't know how much the HR use Maslow's hierarchy while setting up the CTC but yes it does justify my craving for those sexy stillettoes n the haircut!I wonder if Abraham Maslow's wife is the person who motivated him to come up with such awesome theory!So here is my tribute to that great man who I believe managed to understand the women to a good extent and like a real wise man generalize the fact!! :D

cake talk...

A busy Wednesday started with a sweet note when my friend Liz offered me a piece of plum cake and thus marked my Christmas closely 11 days before the D-day!It's interesting how we all have this fond memory of Christmas with cake.Wondering if Jesus ever thought of such association!!Poor Lord can't even swear by taking his own name- Ohh Jesus!!getting back to the cake it is too hard for me to say no to the cake specially if it is a plum cake!It's alarming indeed for my increasing cholesterol rate n of course my vital stats if I may dare say so!But on a second thought I have technically the entire year at my disposal to take care of my health.So why to ruin the fun now? ;)

messed up thoughts....

Living alone not necessarily living messy or is it?I keep on asking this each time I look at my messy wardrobe!I arrange them,it gets disarranged then finally messy!its a perfect circle!I wonder where do we get such perfection towards living messy?is it our inherited savage instinct?although I really don't know if people back on those cave man days were technically messy or organized?such thoughts never really crossed my mind before.Looks like I am trying to justify my laziness on the line of "necessity is the mother of invention" line!again instinct!trying to justify our act to others or sometimes to ourselves also!where does all these comes from then?well good for the psychologist! ;)
sugar candy
rims..

These and That!!

What I should have is what I should decide and this should be the mantra of our life. Well at least mine! Me being a person who likes to decide everything for herself, such demand is quite logical! I realize this on a daily basis when I log into Facebook. Everyday my wall gets loaded with the updates of my friend like what they are reading, on whose profile they have sneaked him, who liked whose picture! I simply did not comprehend the whole meaning of this. For the sake of argument one can always say that I can change the settings accordingly and this is what piss me off! But can't help! I call this pizza base theory! Just like you customize the pizza according to your preferences, life has become like that! You have everything around, just need to set a filter and get exactly what you need as much as unfollowing probably your close friends for the sake of not knowing which how-to-look-fairer article that they are wasting their time on! God saves the website!
My problem is not with Facebook only, it happens all the time, all around me! How many of you faced the situation when in spite of your sheer dislike, you have ended up giving in as someone else (a dear one to you in most of the cases) has or have insisted that you should have it!! "Don't go for the red one babe, it's not that cool! Why are you hanging around with that guy? He isn't that great re! Hey you know what; I think you should try this!!" These are some questions we all face on an average rate everyday! Ever felt like saying thanks but I guess I would do what I feel anyway? Well I feel each time someone says this to me without me asking for their valued opinion! But can't help, we are the( stress on the 'the' part!!) social animal, so we are expected to consider other's opinion, and yes sometimes the deadly of all - unwanted and annoying free sample like opinions! Lesser you have better it is for you.
The chart topper would surely be when it comes to letting your folks know that you have decided upon your prospective groom/bride! Across the country in most of the cases, your family will oppose it! Quite interestingly none of us can say in such cases - what's your problem? But I believe this is THE most apt answers for all such questions.
If in life there comes a point when you have everyone with a say on your life except u..take it from me  that is the time for you to stand up for yourself!!

Heart felt

I can't blame my heart for it's poor condition!a cholesterol problem is least what I expected out of it but life is like that!!what happens is not what we expect.Like we testers say as expected I guess for a thing call life it's always as you haven't expected!! Lol..I wonder if I have been ignoring my heart too much and going around claiming I love myself better now??or may be it's logical that now that I love myself more I am worried about myself??well which one was better then?not Loving myself and be ignorant about its condition or loving myself more and get psyched out??logic says psyching out won't help,working out will but since when I started listening to logic and worked accordingly!guess it's high time I start taking care of myself before it ditch me!! ;P
**I wrote this while walking down from yahoo gate to IBM gate,EGL!! :D

That's my girl!!

My mom used to say that when you have enough time to waste and enough food to eat, you get all the out of the world imagination which in most of the cases meaningless! Outrageous is the word for it! But now when I am big time hungry and gorging on a veg bloom salad and talking to one of my pg friends, I get this weird and happy imagination –

I have some amazing women as my friends. They are simple, regular, everyday women but that’s not what makes them special to me. The fact that fascinates me is the values they live by. The way they stand by themselves! The difference they are trying to make to them.

I am not a feminist and surely don’t liked to be called so but I love the fact that, though we are in most of the cases tagged as minority, helpless and insecure lot, but we are doing things that are bold enough and sometimes the things which a man won’t think of doing it.

My girl friends are my source of inspiration, my nirvana, my confession box, my punching bag, my magic mirror, my confession box! They are like my knight’s armour! They rescue me from the post heart break syndrome, they stop me from making a boo boo, they scream at me when I go nuts, they stand by me like an auto populated default value! They are in every corner of my life with their own flair!

I don’t believe in soul mate but if there is any such thing I would feel they will be the elements that will build my soul. All of them will have a name on them.  If one is bold enough to be what she is even though the entire world is against her, another one is smart enough to make people believe what she wants them to know she is!! If one is dreamy, one is no nonsense drop dead practical! If one is horny then other is the Nun in stilettos!

The best part of having them is I can be myself. Over all these years I felt how important it is and at the same time how difficult it is to be yourself! Being you is not only making a statement for yourself but at the same time accepting the faults in you, being candid to the fact that there are some moments in life where you just give in, despite of the fact that by doing that you are fooling yourself but still you do. That’s why I need them so much around! They will not be judgemental; they won’t ever pretend to be the padre for me. So from a guy’s ass to the work of a Nobel Laureate I can talk about all to them without any hesitation!

It’s not that I can’t live without them or I don’t see pass them but yes they have made and will continue to make a big difference in my life....in Rims’s life! :)